One of the greatest technological findings of the modern day and age is, of course, the internet. It has managed to forever change our lives, mostly for the better. And one of the ways that you can utilize the internet as a man is to get in contact with women. So, what are some of the best ways in which you can go about this?
Well, our first recommendation to you is to go full social media. There are many social networks that you can try out for this purpose. The most popular one, of course, is Facebook. For those of you that are unaware – it’s exceptionally easy to make an account on the social networks and most of them are free. All you need to do is to give some personal information and you’re all set. Back in the 90s, when everyone is using ICQ or MIRC, asking for a/s/l (age/sex/location). It’s not as easy as the website and app you have now, at least you know how they roughly look like.
But now comes the difficult part. You will have to create a profile that will stand out. We know that it’s hard to believe, but there are many men just like you that wish to use the social networks for meeting new women (GASP). And if you wish to stand out, then you will need to invest in the creation of an attractive profile.
But the profile is only a mirror of your lifestyle. Sure, you can have a “boring” life and make it out to be perfectly exciting on your Facebook profile. But this would be a fraud and people will catch on to it. Girls are much more intuitive than you think – they can spot in-congruence from a mile away.
Which is why we recommend that you first invest in improving the quality of your life. If you can make your life exciting and fun, then it would be very easy to translate this on the social media. Find hobbies that are fun and exciting. Have exciting friends and be passionate about your career. Be bold and do things that other people wouldn’t normally do. And don’t forget to take photos while you’re at it, photos that you can then share on Facebook and Instagram to impress the ladies. These two websites are not focus with finding you the right person, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel and other apps are much better for you to get into relationship. There maybe a lot of rumors that it’s app for one night stand, but not all girls in these apps are looking for sex partners, so respect them and don’t expect to have a sexual relationship immediately.
And then it’s all a numbers game. You will need to add as many women as you can – women that you find attractive. And then start to chat them up. In most cases, you will find out that many women aren’t very responsive to you. This is all okay and to be expected. But there will be some cases when you will hit it up with certain women. It’s a law of averages that you will find women that share the same interests with you.
Finally, you can decide if you wish to take things a step further and invite some of these women on dates. After a while, you may build a healthy social circle with several women in your life. And one of them may turn out to be THE ONE. So, start using the power of the internet as soon as possible in order to find a girl that you will like.