Are you feeling frustrated because your relationship simply no longer has the romance and the magic in it that it had once upon a time? Is your sex life suffering, too? Don’t worry. A lot of other women in long-term relationships go through the same thing. This is because you have become so comfortable and stable in your situation that you have forgotten to make the sparks fly. Sometimes couple just get lazy. So, should you cheat on your partner and create some drama in your life, then? Of course not! Rekindling your sex life would be the best answer to this predicament. Here are several creative and fun ideas to help you out.
You will be amazed at how quickly his attitude towards you changes using these simple sex techniques:
Get Him in the Mood
Get him into the mood to have a good session in bed much before you get there. Try some naughty tricks- send a parcel of sexy gift to him at the workplace and just watch how he is all over you once he comes back from work. Once his mind is stimulated, his body will follow.
Have Sex in New Places.
The easiest way to rekindling your sex life would be to change locations. If you keep having sex at the same place every time, it isn’t any wonder why you have gotten bored with the act. Try making love on the dining table, in the bathroom or someplace new altogether next time.
Try out several new sex positions now and then. Of course, you will need to learn more about these positions before trying them out and mastering them, but practice makes perfect!
Even if you don’t like it very much, your partner is sure to love it when you talk dirty to him. There are a lot of online guides on what to say in bed that can help in rekindling your sex life.
Perform Oral Sex.
Aside from sexual intercourse, you can satisfy your man in a lot of other ways, such as through oral sex. Some men even prefer oral sex to actual sex, so you definitely won’t go wrong when it comes to this. Just make sure you have an open mind and are patient if your partner ever decides to return the favor. Some men might not be very good at giving oral sex yet because they do not know how women like it. If this is the case with your partner, then make sure you let him know exactly how he can improve, so that you can both enjoy your sex life to the fullest.
The process of rekindling your sex life is similar to cultivating a plant. Sometimes, you might have to be the gardener and provide enough fertilizer and water for the plant, so that you can grow or bear fruits. The main idea here is to create some sparks in your sex life, not going through the same routine everyday. Imagine you eat the same thing everyday for the last 10 years, how do you feel about it? You might not feel like eating it even it’s totally free. A good relationship do require some effort, and sex do require both partner to work it out.
Doing the above listed simple fun ideas can capture your man heart making him love you the best and building a deep emotional connection with you.